5 Things That Can Make You a More Attractive Person

5 Things That Can Make You a More Attractive Person

No matter where you are in your life, sometimes you hit a point where you want to meet new people. Whether you’re looking for a romantic partner, some new friends, or just trying to fit in with a new group of colleagues, meeting new people is nerve wracking and it’s natural to worry about being liked. Luckily, we’ve put together these simple tips for how you can turn yourself into an attractive presence to have around.

  1. Have exciting hobbies

Though you should never push yourself to do something completely outside your comfort zone just for the sake of it, a great way to make yourself more attractive is to be interested in something unusual or interesting that makes people want to know more about you. This can be totally different depending on who you are and the kind of people you are friends with – for example, Henry Cavill is very into Warhammer, which many consider incredibly niche and nerdy, but certainly makes it apparent that there is more to the actor than meets the eye. So whether that means going out and learning to make sushi or buying yourself a stunt scooter, go and develop your interests.

  1. Develop your conversation

Not everyone is born to be a conversationalist, but it is important to have at least basic conversational skills to ensure that you can hold your own socially and enjoy getting to meet new people rather than finding it an ordeal. Pick a few common topics – books or films, for example – and make sure you have a few comments and questions to offer on those topics. You’ll find your interactions at work dos and parties get a lot easier! Additionally, if people know you are easy to talk to, this makes you a much more attractive person to be around.

  1. Be willing to put yourself out there

Though everyone is different and there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert, it’s important not to let your quiet tendencies get in the way of your willingness to try new things and meet new people. Even if that new thing is something quiet like going to a poetry reading, the willingness to be adventurous or learn new things is a quality that makes people happy to engage with you and which enables you to become a part of your important people’s lives.

  1. Know what you want out of life

Knowing your goals is one of the best ways to make yourself attractive to those around you. While having your life together in the moment is important, people also like to understand where you are headed with your life and see that you have a little drive and ambition, and having clear goals is a great way to display that. Additionally, having goals set for your future shows that you have a strong sense of yourself and what you want your life to look like, which helps you to attract the kind of people you will be compatible with and be able to share your life with successfully.

  1. Look after yourself

While physical health is indeed important and can improve your attractiveness, looking after yourself in general means so much more than that. Ensuring you have a handle not only on your physical health, but your mental and financial wellbeing as well as ensuring you know where you stand in terms of your priorities and goals, all adds to how attractive a person is as a friend, partner or colleague. Not only does it enhance your own life but additionally improves your impression of reliability, confidence, and authority, making you a desirable person to have around.

Being an attractive person is about so much more than just being physically attractive – and developing these traits will help enormously!

My Favorite Weekend Activities

My Favorite Weekend Activities

With such a busy schedule, school and also personal life, it can really affect how people choose to spend their free time. Interests that we can do on a weekly, monthly, or even yearly basis. We could have some hobbies in common, many like sports, hiking, exercise, though some people like working out the mind instead. Research, keeping up with the most recent news, whether it be local, state or international, that’s more of a daily basis in my case. The easiest way I stay up to date is with apps, almost all news have apps that are easy to get used to, and also the stock market even.

Going back to sharing similar past times, one of my favorite news cast is former judge, Andrew Napolitano. “Who is he?” You may ask. For those that are unaware of who he is, he is a former judge, who is now a media commentator, attorney and professor of law. Having that many careers doesn’t give people time to have any free time for themselves. What I really admire about him is that although he is a busy man, he always makes time to do what he loves and that is costing his farm. His farm produces maple syrup and is very known for it as well.
This is a hobby we share in common. When I was younger, I started with my grandparents’ yard, a couple roses and tulips and in the present day I plant in my friends and neighbors yards. Honestly never would I think I’d be into gardening at all, but after a family incident, someone recommended different activities as a therapeutic exercise. Judge Napolitano is a busy man, not to mention very important. Yet he still has time to attend to his farm. It’s motivational to see someone at such high power still able to have a personal life.

What to Look Forward to in 2021

What to Look Forward to in 2021

Helen Lee Schifter is an arbitrage trader on Wall Street; she is also a former editor at Hearst and Condé Nast. She graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy and Amherst College, which she attended both during pioneering transitions to coeducation. 

She says to herself and thinks 2021 starts the same as 2020. She has big plans in 2021 plans that will change her life forever. She has hope for 2021 to be a better year than 2020. Anything would be better than going through 2021 again. Her plans can’t be that big to not put other people at risk, but she still has big plans to still blow your mind.

She plans on being more confident in 2021 to make sure all of the stuff she wants to do is done and not push to the side. Helen Schifter always enjoys not letting stress get in the way of her having fun.

She plans on going to the beach, but not when it is crowded. She wants to be safe but still have fun and focus on the stuff she wants to do for 2021 going into 2022. Her business is very successful and is helping a lot of people. She plans on keeping the business going so it can keep on growing. She plans on doing more things to help others like donating money for people in need of money if they are struggling.

Her career has just started and she is not planning on stopping anytime soon. She has plenty of things planned to do, even though the thought can be overwhelming. However, she feels the confidence to do them.

2020 has woken her up and she realizes she can’t keep on pushing it to another day to a month. She realizes that even though it might be tough she has to keep on going and not give up. If she kept on getting scared then she would have never started a business of her own. She learned that 2021 is a new year. It is a fresh start to do new things to start over and to leave the old stuff behind.